finally my com ok le^^
read this from a book my sis borrowed from her sch lib..
i find it quite interesting coz it is bout hw a guy n a ger face e same situation:)

A TWO-SIDED POEM

i saw her today.
i saw him today.

its been a while.
it seems like centuries.

she looked okay.
i couldnt stop staring.

we talked for a while.
he looked so fine.

she kept lookimg at mii and i wondered why.
he wouldnt look mi in the eye and i wondered why.

she asked mii how i was and i told her bout my new girlfriend.
he asked mii if i hab a boyfriend,and i told him i didnt.

i pretended like i cared.
i pretended like i didnt care.

she look different than she used to.
he looked better than ever.

i gave her a friendly hug good-bye.
we held each other one more time.

and then i went surfing.
and then i went home and cried.

from e same book,,
i found this,,
its kinda lame[duno whether if it is true]
anyway,,
this is how it goes..

WHAT GUYS LIKE?

.guys like gers hu take good care of themselves.
this isnt about model beauty.this is about clean hair,smelling good,exercising.
by taking care of youself,you send out e message tt you care about youself.guy like this!
.guys like gers hu hab a life.they like it when you arent always available.they like to know tt if they like you,you arent goin to b needing them all e time.
.guys like gers hu hab a sense of humour.this is one of e most underestimated attributes.let's face it,we all lovesomeone hu laughs and knows how to hab fun.
.guys like gers hu dont try too hard.once again,the message you send when tyou try too hard is tt you are despo.they want to think tt they lucked out by getting you.
.guys like gers hu listen to them n find them interesting.dun fake it,but dun try to 'get' a guy if you dun think he is interesting.
.guys like gers hu hab fun wif their ger frenx.they want to know tt if they r goin to watch the game on saturday nite,you arent goin to fall apart.they like gers hu can hab a good time without them.
.guys like gers hu sincerely like them.so...instead of thinkin,'i want a boyfriend',think,'i am lookin forward to meeting a guy i like hu likes mii back.'

WHAT GERS LIKE?

.gers like guys hu adore them.this is e no. one thing for girls. many a ger has fallen in love wif a guy after he announces tt he likes her.the more you like her,the better[unless it is overbearing].
.gers like guys hu r strong.they like guys hu r confident n give them the feeling tt they r safe when they r around them.
.gers like guys hu arent afraid to say sweet things to them.
.gers like guys hu dun shy away from them when their buddies r around.
.gers like guys hu noe how to hab fun when they r wif a ger.
.gers like guys hu make them feel special.
.gers like guys hu care bout their feelings and hu arent afraid to talk bout 'emotional' stuff.
.gers like guys hu r thoughtful,hu call jux to say 'hi','goodnite',or see how they r doin.
.gers like guys hu r generous.nt jux money but in other ways too.they like guys hu will go out their way to make them feel comfortable.
.gers like guys hu take care of themselves.

maybe all this will help those "despo for love" ppl.
than mux thx mii alrights:))

another guide from e same book..
TIPS TO BREAKING UP

.be as kind bout it as you can.
.be respectful.
.dun break up wif someone in a letter or on a phone message.
.try nt to prove your point by listing all e things wrong with him/her.
.try nt to b defensive.its veri tempting to want to make him/her wrong or bad and anything else tt will alleviate your guilt.try to rmb,,he/she will b hard broken-you can live with a little guilt.
.dun announce tt you r dumping him/her in front of other ppl.
.dun talk bout him/her infront of other ppl in a mean way.
.dun discuss things tt were personal between e two of you.

after posting all this,,
i sound as if i m aunt agony here,,lol
cant believe tt my sis actualli borrow this kind of book:))
ok,,shall post till here^^

msTRICIA[acting as aunt agony today^^]